My Ideal Love
My journey in recovery has taught me that I had to learn the difference between love and lust.
The spirituality I seek has lead me to the following concept of love that I seek:
My Ideal Love Life: To have a relationship that exists in total enjoyment of each other and to want to do for each other unconditionally. To love openly, expressively and with total giving, and to care for her without expectations for me. To want to be with that person from my heart, not my loins. Sex is part of it, but not lust.
My vow to my spouse:I vow to love you with total enjoyment and to want to do for you unconditionally. I vow to love you without criticism, openly, expressively and with total giving. I pledge to care for you without expectations for me. I pray that together we can find all our answers with faith in our hearts. May God grant us serenity, and may we know his will.